The reason why I chose the companion life as my path started with a passion for the erotic, for connection, and a curiosity in people and their kinks. I have for a long time felt passionate about how important it is to connect intimately, and I believe strongly that as a society we need to have less shame about our sexual and intimate needs- exploring our erotic side can have a transformative impact on our lives. The world of kink, sex parties, and debauchery was what excited me the most in the bedroom.
Roleplay didn’t entice me much in the beginning, apart from using the classic epithets such as Mistress, Sir or submissive. Doing a roleplay just seemed a little cliche and trite to me, like a bad old school porno and I just didn’t see the need for it. I just really enjoy tuning into my authentic drives and desires during dates so I couldn’t really see what my other roleplay escort friends in London were so keen about.
So I was more than a little surprised the first time I did a boss/secretary roleplay and discovered how much I loved it! First of all, it was just plain silly and fun. Sometimes I get lovers who are very nervous, and I usually manage to put them at ease quite quickly and there’s nothing like laughing together to do that. Doing a roleplay immediately can take away some of the seriousness of the moment and bring in that playful spirit. I was talking to a friend of mine (one of London’s top roleplay escorts, Carla James) and we were both saying how sex is better when there’s laughing, and a roleplay GFE date really gives space for that! I then discovered that the roleplay allowed me to reach new depths in my sexuality and kink, and also in my inner life. A script of some kind (even when its very loose) offers a safe container and something to hold onto (and sometimes hide behind) when you’re going a little out of your comfort zone and into the shadow lands of your erotic desires. It can also help give you permission to desires that may feel more taboo.
As many of you know, I am an avid reader of philosophy and psychology and I enjoy thinking about what our sexual desires can transform inside us. C.G, Jung’s work on shadow selves and archetypes I find incredibly interesting. He talks about the importance of befriending and welcoming our shadow sides, the darker parts of us that we wish to suppress. Jung’s archetypes are universal symbolic personas (and the foundation for the Myers-Briggs personality type tests), like feminine/masculine, hero, lover, creator, caretaker, jester, ruler, rebel. They exist in religious texts, literature and art, our dreams, and in our public life in society and in our relationships- often we find ourselves cast in the same archetypes more often than not. Roleplays often work as a way of delving into both our shadow sides- the parts we feel uncomfortable with- and ways of exploring versions of the different archetypes I just listed. So it really makes sense why doing roleplays with an erotic roleplay escort- who is an expert in this area- can be so powerful and transformative!
Now, I think that’s enough of analysis for this piece. I want to talk about some roleplays that I have really enjoyed and some that I am keen to try! I have indeed been lucky to have some really interesting and playful lovers, some of the roleplay dates that stand out are for example a nun roleplay I did with fellow London roleplay escort Arazatah. I was a novice with Arazatah as Mother Superior and our gentleman friend the priest. The added layer of fear of spiritual damnation and original sin, as well as calling Arazatah Mother Superior and our gentleman lover Father, was incredibly hot! We all found ourselves completely lost in desire as the roleplay GFE threesome brought out a much deeper level of lust than any of us had expected. I think good sex and intimacy always has a spiritual component, but explicitly playing with this was just delicious!
A scenario that I am really curious to try out is the Doctor/Patient situation. I imagine this as an extension of a dominant GFE date, or perhaps with one of my London roleplay escort friends like Scarlett May, so we can mix the exciting dynamics of a threesome GFE date with a roleplay duo threesome. We all know how exposed we feel going to the doctor, the power they wield as they can tell us to show our most private parts for inspection and treatment. Only imagination is the limit here- so many opportunities for the use of different implements to prod and poke someone’s body, instruct them into different positions or extract payment for experimental treatment… and of course, there is the hot nurse outfit! Obviously, this would work as well with me as the submissive and you as the doctor- some extra spice to the submissive GFE date.
Another idea, which is quite similar to doctor/patient roleplay, but slightly more cerebral, is of course therapist/patient. My academic background means I have a slightly kinky penchant for deep dives into intellectual debate with my lovers and incredibly smart independent London escort friends. I sometimes think I need to add to my site introduction that I am an escort who is a perfect fit for those seeking the intellectual girlfriend experience in London. Perhaps this is something I should suggest as a new category on the site of Kinky London Escorts, aka KLE. So a roleplay GFE date where we turn up the volume on the dominant GFE date and I am a twisted therapist who takes you in for treatment and get you lost and confused with my mind games. I have too many ideas for this roleplay- hypnosis, straitjacket, unconventional treatments- so many debauched scenarios from yours truly, perhaps the most twisted of all of the London roleplay escorts!
So, I’ve given you some of my thoughts on the topic of roleplay GFE dates, now it’s your turn. I want to hear your juiciest and weirdest fantasies, but also the ordinary roleplay scenarios you dream about. Maybe its a gym scene between a PT and his trainee (I do love some super tight lycra gym wear), or a vampire and his victim… the sky’s the limit!
See you in fantasy land/Nova
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